How Should You Handle Gifts of Food?
It’s the time of year when your clients, co-workers, friends and relatives start sending you chocolates,
cookies and other tempting gift baskets for the holidays. For those of you who’ve already received such a gift, you know how troublesome it can be! Just this week, two of my clients shared their holiday gift stories with me and asked my advice on how to handle them.
Problem #1: From a city girl: She had just received a jumbo sized box of delicious truffles from her boss. 
My Proposed Solutions:
1. Hmmm .. guess you could open the box at work and “spread the wealth” (or fat) with your co-workers. Muffin tops for all! But it is likely your boss gave your co-workers chocolates as well - so that idea may not work too well. (pic is of muffin top)
2. You could “re-gift” it. A handy gift for your manicurist or mailman… and you save some money. A win win solution. I like this solution the best! 
3. You could give it to your boyfriend or husband to take to their office.
4. Or if you have extreme discipline, you could take the box home and eat one a day. FYI - one Lindt truffle has 70 calories and 6 gm fat. So the average person (me!) might eat 5 of them before stopping. This is 350 calories and 30 grams of fat. A city girl would need to run for about 35 - 40 minutes to burn this off.
5. You could give it to a homeless person in the street. You’d make his/her night!
Problem #2: From a city guy: His mother-in-law keeps sending over new batches of homemade cookies. He could can see his belly growing by the minute …
My Proposed Solutions:
1. This is a tough one as you do NOT want to insult your mother-in-law by refusing homemade food.
2. Chances are that your spouse is also trying to watch her weight. Therefore you could suggest that SHE (not you) talk to her mother about cutting back on the baking.
3. It sometimes helps to bring health into the picture. Perhaps your cholesterol, blood pressure or blood sugar is slightly elevated. I would bet the mother-in-law would take the request to cut back on baking more seriously if she knew her son-in-law’s health was at stake.
3. If the mother-in-law insists on continuing to deliver the cookies, you could re-gift as I mentioned above. Or take a big tin of them to your office.
4. Freeze some of them and eat one a day
5. Same suggestion as above - give them to your doorman
Tips to Handle Tempting Goodies or Gifts of Food:
1. In your office, keep them in another room out of your sight. Try to avoid the room where they are kept as much as possible. The more you see them, the more you will want to eat them! Check out my previous post on my encounter with chocolates in the office. I actually had to leave the room as I was losing control.
2. At home, keep them in a container (not a see through one) and put them out of sight. Studies have shown that we eat significantly more candy/sweets if they are placed in a clear container versus an opaque container.
3. Allow yourself 1-2 of your favorite holiday goodies a day (maybe 150 calories). Choose what you really want, eat it slow and enjoy it. Then stop!
4. If eating these goodies opens the floodgates and leads to uncontrolled eating, then you will really need to avoid them. Check out my interview with Christy the Sugar Addict. Or my previous post describing my own “chocoholism”. Don’t even start with foods that get you going. Bring in healthy snacks from home to have when everyone else is munching on fattening cookies.
5. As you are avoiding (or limiting) the tempting goodies, think about all the calories your co-workers will be consuming!
6. If you do overindulge, get back on track at the next meal or next day. Don’t beat yourself up or let the overindulgence fuel thoughts of “Well, I blew it, so I might as well keep on eating”.
7. As per my proposed solutions above, if you get a gift tempting gift of food , consider giving it away. Better to have the calories on someone else’s hips! I’ve been given holiday gifts of cookies and chocolate and have learned the hard way that I’m not very good at controlling my intake of these foods, so I now know to give them away before I even open the package. Check out my previous post called “Can Nutritionists Control Their Intake of Sweets?” to get ideas of how other nutritionists deal with problem foods.![]()
So the next time your mother-in-law shows up at your apartment with a fresh baked batch of cookies or another food basket arrives in your office, plan ahead as to how you will handle it.
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