Don’t Let Summer Parties Pack on the Pounds
The arrival of summer brings a flurry of social activities – pool parties, beach parties, BBQ’s, rooftop parties, birthdays (why are so many birthdays in summer?), etc. And of course all of these get togethers revolve around food and/or booze. While it is great to spend time with friends, neighbors and family, if you aren’t careful, these parties can start to pack on the
pounds. By the time Labor Day rolls around, your muffin top will be spilling over your bathing suit.
I thought about doing this post because many of my clients (as well as myself) have been struggling with how to handle this increased party frequency from a food and alcohol standpoint. Speaking of parties, the pic on top is of my bday get together at Cellar Bar (liquid calories were flowing …) and pic below, Paula’s bday party at Otto (wine, pizza, pasta, bread, desserts). We ended up overindulging at
Otto’s because we didn’t get our food until until almost 10:30 pm. Low blood sugar and alcohol = overconsumption!
Tips to slim your summer party
1. Offer to bring a healthy dish to your neighborhood party so you can avoid Mrs. Smith’s mayo packed potato salad and dressing drenched green salad. Suggestions: interesting summer salads made with healthy dressings, fresh fruit in season (try making fresh fruit kabobs), grilled veggies, green salads, pasta salad made with whole wheat pasta and tons of veggies with light dressing.
2. Add some lean protein to your BBQ choices. Let your neighbors indulge in ribs and cheeseburgers, while you have a turkey burger, veggie burger, salmon burger or grilled chicken breast.
3. Lighten up on the alcohol and remember that liquid calories DO count! Wine spritzers, light beer or dilute drinks with non-caloric mixers are your best bets (i.e. small amount of vodka and diet lemonade.) Keep in mind that the hot weather dehydrates you, which will increase your thirst …which in turn can cause you to drink more alcohol. Make sure you stay hydrated with plenty of water.
4. Plan ahead. If possible, find out what will be served at the party so you can strategize ahead of time. Check out the restaurant menu online. Remember not to go to a party too hungry – have a light snack ahead of time.
5. Set limits for yourself. If you know you’ll be going to a pool party and BBQ this weekend, limit your food and alcohol intake at your friend’s bday party on Thursday night.
6. If possible, try to arrive a little late to the party – or leave before desserts (without appearing rude of course!) This cuts down on eating/drinking time.
7. Wear a tight outfit (or bathing suit) to the party … you will be more body conscious and less likely to overindulge!
8. Try to include some physical activities in the parties. For example, frisbee or volleyball.

cutting calories. This tactic will eventually backfire. In both of these situations, when you eventually do get around to eating, you can’t stop – it feels like you just can’t get full! What is going on?



compelled to eat each course because it is included in the price. It is generally recommended that “all-inclusive” meals be avoided. Avoid these meals! Order a la carte instead. It’s better to pay an few extra dollars by ordering a la carte than to deal with the cost and embarrassment of having to buy new clothes! (Pic is of me being “force fed” dessert)
may impede the body’s ability to burn fat. Therefore, it is best to limit your intake of alcoholic beverages. (This man seemed to be enjoying his vodka and tonic … wonder if he overindulged later on?) 
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changes of course) who are getting ready to leave for vacation. Susan is heading to Croatia with friends who love to party. George is heading out to his favorite couples all-inclusive resort in Cancun. Unlimited food and booze spells trouble for him in numerous ways. Many people gain weight while on vacation. The trick to prevent this is to identify potential problem areas and come up with a game plan on how to handle them.
1. If possible, plan an active vacation. For me, the ideal vacation would be a ski or biking trip. That way you get to be active during the day and enjoy good food and desserts at night, minus the guilt. Oops …did I forget to say wine?

1/2 the entree portion and wrap the rest to take home in a doggy bag.
Keeping the plates of food close by is asking for trouble. For example, this Park City man (in pic) was having trouble controlling his intake of wings. He continued to eat them until every last one was gone. If he had pushed the plate out of reach and taken a breather, he might have been able to save a few hundred calories! (pic above is of Park City Man, L.C., hands eagerly reaching for more wings…)
sleep, too many cocktails, etc.
our bodies are craving.
hungry: a main cause of over-eating and weight gain. Another benefit of small, frequent healthy meals is that you are more likely to meet all your nutritional needs for the day which promote a healthy mind, body and boosts your metabolism. Eating well makes you feel better and this will keep you on a healthy track, making healthy choices all day long. Examples of small meals could include 3 oz grilled chicken/fish, 1 cup of steamed veggies and ½ cup of brown rice, OR, 6-8 ounces plain low or non-fat yogurt with 1 cup of whole grain cereal and ½ cup berries.
best to pay attention to the way you feel when you wake up. A sign that you are NOT getting enough sleep is if you have to hit the snooze button more then once and/or you feel as though you are dragging or fatigued during the day. Further, if you engage in moderate to heavy exercise more than 4 times a week your body may need an extra hour or 2 of sleep for full recovery and repletion. When our bodies don’t get the adequate rest it requires it instinctively seeks out high calorie/fat foods that it knows will provide quick energy. Moral of the story: the better you sleep the fewer calories you’ll consume.
difference between a hunger signal and a thirst signal is to remain adequately hydrated throughout the day. An easy way to do so is to keep a water bottle with you at ALL times and WHEREVER you go. Stainless steel bottles are the safest and most highly recommended as they are BPA free, a harmful chemical found in plastic and some aluminum bottles. On average, about 8-8 ounce glasses is the minimum amount of water you should drink per day, however, this may not be enough if you exercise regularly. One way to test your hydration level is by the color of your urine as it should appear colorless or slightly yellow. Keep in mind that most other beverages and foods contain water as well such as soups and raw fruits/vegetables.
poor health over time and can disrupt hormonal/chemical balances which is what leads to addiction or severe cravings. Studies show that some bad habits such as smoking, drinking and OVER-eating can become very addictive over time as the body starts to crave these substances to fill the “void.” By replacing these habits with healthier ones you can reverse the damage and train your body to stop signaling for it. Next time you’re feeling super-stressed, call up a friend to chat, or better yet, use that stress to fuel a high intensity workout at the gym. When we do good things for ourselves, it can become one of the healthiest addictions out there and that’s a craving we all should want to keep around.
stay lighter longer, many of us get the urge for a cocktail or two after work. We crawl out of our winter “slug-like” mode and hit the bars with our friends. Who wants to go home and watch tv – or take a 6 pm spin class for that matter – when all your friends are out at the new hot spot roof top bar!
could not refuse! But what happens then these texts come in 5 nights a week? The calories in booze adds up quickly! If you aren’ t careful, your muffin top will sprout just in time for bathing suit season. Read my tips to minimize damage done by “Cocktail Spring Fever”.
have a week. My suggestion is no more than 7 drinks a week for women and 14 drinks a week for men (I know this isn’t fair but these are the general recommendations!)

